The Tales of Infinity

i taLked to my friend this afternoon (i keep his name for confidential).. he called me and tiba" bilang… "tephhh, i read your bLog and tau ngga.. skr gue jd tau another side of stefannie loohh.."

i was liKe.. "oh ya?? what?"

"hmm yeahh, ternyata loe daLem jg yaahh.. hahaha.. bisa segitu thoughtfuLnya.. soalnya setaU gue loe tuh kan biasanya cengengesan abisss.. ktawaaaa molooo.. ngga bisa seriusss.. aahh pokonya gOkillll abis daaahhh… gyuegueueuhe"

not funny.

hueheuheue..

trs dia bilang lg…

"and guess what… i started to love yOur mum!!!"

whaaaatt!!

hueheuheuhe..

trstrs dengan dodOl nya dia bilang..

"plis stop taLking in javanese yahh.. kamu tuh ngga pantes bangett ngomong jawa… uda ngga bisa… maksa lagi.. dont say "opo opo mas" laaahh, i thinK teh tea pisan and all kind of sundanese vocaBulary suits you better!"

fine!!! =(

hahaha.. "ehhh if you happen tO read this (orang yg berasa ngomong ini..) hahahha.. pleasssee yah masss.. orang lagi belajar tuh mboK yah dihargainn gitu.. hueheuhue.. kidding.

[but you seriOusly lighten up my deii.. so, thanks to you.. huehuee]

eniweii..

lagi ngerasain couple of things nih dalem ati..

#1. kangen ama new york city..

aahahhaa… out of the blue.

[ohhh new yorrkk how i miss thee..]

#2. kangen sama orang ini..

orang paLing rese… huehuehe.. why?? soalnya jeLek tapi ngangenin.. darn it… huehuheue..

miss your gentleness, care, n garing-ness.. =)

a man yg paling bisaaaa bikin orang tenang..

aaaahh… ksini dOunkkks.

trs sebel soalnya these couple of deis ga tau knp susaH bangettt call indo.. and as a result, jdnya mi amore yg nelpon in trss.. trs suaranya ngga jelasss.. ky ng0mong diangkasa trs ketiup angin.. some words ngilang".. ada ngga ada .. ada ngga ada… eerrrrgghh.. cant handle a day without hearing his vOice.. T_T

heuheuhue..

ah.. and this bloG is getting biased..

dahan yahh.. =)

ahahhaa..

i prOmise you (the reader) to come up with something yg lebih berBoBot yah next time… hehehhe

[tephs]

GodBlessie!

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maaannn… dis is my 3rd dayy of not haVing enuff sLeep!!

1st dei was in ReNo, Nevada..

i went tO a business cOmpetitiOn at University of NeVada, ReNo.. gile seru abissss… we were given a financial case yg hrs di sOlve within 36 hOurs..

poKonya that twO days.. i didnt get enuff sLeeP.. and jd addicted sama yg namanya cOffee.. 3 gLasses of cOffee a daY… huhuhuhu..

sebenernya lagi maLes sih nuLis Blog.. hehehee..

so, i just put the piCs frOm ReNo nya aja yahh.. =)

  [first day in ReNo.. me n StaRlet]

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writing twO bLogs in a day… ha!

u know, yg namanya inspiration itu dateng nya suka tiBa".. klo lg ngga ada inspiratiOn, sometimes i dOnt even get a word to write.. nah, something like today, bisa nulis bLog 2 kali jarang" bangett nihh.. =)

after finished wOrKing in the art Lab, i went to the math and operational management cLass.. i almost skip the management class cOs i felt reallyyy tired and a lil’ dizzy.. pusing dikit..

but then i called mi amore frOm school’s parking lot and he asked me to go to my class.. sooo… ok.. masuk kelas..

Thank God i didnt miss today’s lecture.. not only pusing nya ilang, i’ve alsO learnt so mucH nih hari ini.. i got "brainwashed" by my GreeK professor.. i Loveeee the way he teach, really.. =)

so aight, today’s lecture topiC was abOut prOduct management.. belajar ttg managing the cost, competition, sampe ke prOduct marketing..

do you know that waktu di dunia ini baru ada computer (on 1970), berapa banyak computer yg di fOrecast bakal kejual?

the answer is : 9 comps

and bayangin, today millions of ppl punya cOmp..

when IBM launched its first PC on 1980, they forecasted that they would sell 100,000 PCs.

guess how many PCs yg kejuaL??

answer : 3,000,000 PCs!!! –> 3 millions, gaLs!!

interesting.

and when it came to the prOduct marketing, makin seru dehh.. we talked about the twO largest soft-drink companies, CocaCoLa and Pepsi.. the fact that they are trying so hard to beat each other up, and compete in selling their prOduct, make me realize that business people suka "mengOrbankan n menghalalkan segala cara" for the saKe of prOfit.. $$$$$$

nih, do u realize that pepsi is sweeter than cOKe? (nodded").. couple yrs agO, ceritanya pepsi’s profit was always lower than cOke, everybody loves cOcacOla.. then, pepsi’s managers bikin ads on TV.. di ads itu, mereka bikin survey, asked peOple to take a sip from twO can of sodas yg ditutup brand nya.. trs ditanya, which one they like better.. and guess what?? eVerybody always pilih kaleng yg sama, and waKtu brand nya dibuKa, ternyata itu Pepsi!! do u know why? lemme tell you the evil side of it…

when u’re asked to take a sip of a drink.. just a sip loh yah, not the whole bOttle.. psychologicaly, peoPle are tend to always bilang that "the sweeter the better..!"

eVen when the cOcacOla managers disuruh take a sip, he picked a bottle yg pas diBuka ternyata botol pepsi!!

eviL abisss.. then dr situ everybody started to beli pePsi, and pepsi’s revenue increased abis"annnn.. and in contrast, cOca cOla turun drastissss.. what an eVil way to sell ur prOduct!

Doing business without advertising is like winking at a girl in the dark. You know what you are doing, but nobody else does.
-Stuart Henderson

hahh.. the lecture nempel abis on my mind nih.. kepikiran trs.. hehehe.. im not trying tO be one evil, but one thing crOssed my mind, "am i here, in the US, sent by my parents to this school, to learn as many evilish ways as i can, for future purposes… buat dipake ntar pas uda kerja??"

kekekkee.. ngga lah.

there are many ways for you to be success without kill other peOple’s business..

[2:05am]

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huahuahuaa.. im in the art laB.. dont have anithin’ to do..

sleepY. tired. td pagi got up pretty early.. bikin mOod jd ngga stabil nih.. my head rasanya beraaaatt bangett.. T_T

mood swing. bad mood.

ahhh.. klo dipikir", untung Tuhan ngga pernah mOody ama qta yah.. =) can you imagine one day pas lagi butuh"nya curhat ama Tuhan trs Dianya lg ngga mOod dengerin.. "im not in the moOd.. abis kamu nya nge BT in, bikin dosa trs.." God says. hehehe.. aaaih, thanK you Lord for You ngga pernah moody and always dengerin qta.. [dont you love HiM even more bcOs of that??] =) =)

duhhh.. beneran deh, im really sleepy.

btw, last nite, my Mommy called me.. we had a very fun conversation!! dr muLai ngomongin dresses yg dia titipin ke my rOomie for me (finally Christina dateng… seremm man tinggal sendiriannn..) sampe ngomongin the most suprising thing, my cousin – temen bae dr lahir – my mom’s bestfriend’s daughter – my temen kerja bareng, Andina, will get married on DeCemBer 06 (11 months from now)!! awwww.. An, if you happen to read my BloG.. gileee.. i heard this frOm mom.. and im speechless aN.. couldnt beLieve it.. hahhaa.. it’s like "hahh.. my temen kecil (she’s one year oLder than me) mo married???" aaaaaaaaaa……!!!

inget bangettt that qTa grew up bareng, our moms itu bestfriend-nan.. trs kerja bareng di oHlala.. hehehe.. trs i knew bangett pas dia nungguin si "koko" tercinta pulang dr US, trs kmrn sempet nge date bareng pas me pulang indo, sampe akhirnyaaaaa.. mo married!!! heuheuheue… CoNgraTuLatiOnssss my dearrrr sis… =) im sooo happy for you!! gila an, i have to gO back tO indo nih on DeC, couldnt miss ur wedding..! =)

[stefannie and andina]

3 years aGo..

and for sure another thOught arises; when my temen2 deket mulai pada married (sisKa malahan uda punya lil’ baby!, Yanti uda engaged), then jadi mikir.. "gile.. gue dah gede jg yah?? hahhaa.."

this is what i called peer-pressure..!! *sigh* when smua orang tOok the next steps of life (get married, engaged, gave birth), indirectly, i feel obligated to thinK about it too.. gOssshhh.. hahahhaa.. eventho’ i seriOusly dont thinK im ready for that yet..

yasuteralahhh.. mo dO something else.. [continue my reading - lagi baca the devil wears prada nih, bagus deh..]

aitey, aLtalavistaaa.

[tePhs]

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huaaa.. ngantUkkk.. gile, bangun jam 7 pagiii.. mondaY morninggg lagii… huhuhuhu.. [im in the art Lab nih]

i wanna go bacK to indo klo inget that i can sleep all day longgg, ngga ada gangguan, ngga ada pikirann, no buRden.. yg ada cuma bangun" dibangunin my dad buat bareng2 morning prayer (uhhh.. i lOve him for that, He’s an awesome prayer, very simple and powerful), trs lanjut witH my mommie’s superrr yummy homemade breaKfast, ditlp ama my darlin’ (seneng deh.. sometimes he just call to say i love you, trs bye hOney – aku lanjutin kerja lg yah…), nonton infotainment(s) sambil nungguin tlp frOm either lilly-veni-sisKa-lina yg bakalan ngaJakin hang Out, and yeah, the rest of the day palingan have funn" ama tmn" and maLem nya ktemuan ama k Joe.. idup kynya heppi abisss gt klo di indO.. *kpengennn dOnKkkkk*

but tHen yesterday, ci wendy reminded us through her shOrt testimony at church.. she said that sometimes we dont realize that we’ve wasted our time seharian.. nontonin sitCom – do nothing.. tapi hrsnya kita bisa pake our time buat do something yg ada guNanya.. hmm.. very true..

so..? wHat am i dOing here?? malahan nulis bLoG.. padaHal mendingan belajar for tOmorrow’s marketing exaM.. hehehe..

and tau ngga.. this morning.. my co-worker yg hrs nya kerja with me dateng telat.. my supervisOr called me earlier to ask whether this guy uda dateng apa blom.. and then said that tadi my co-worker called her and bilang mObil nya having prOblem lagi and hrs dateng teLatt..

40 minutes later, my co-worker baru dateng.. trs yah critain moBiLnya berasep.. blablabla.. and then said:

he: hey.. if the superVisOr asK yOu when did i come, can you say that i come right after she called you.. (pdHl dia dateng 40mins later)

me: (aduhh boOng dOnk.. hmmm yes.. no.. yes.. no.. ) "mm.. ok" i said..

udahnya.. aduH Tuhann.. hopefully my supervisOr ngga nanya dehh.. ngga maO bOong..

see? yg namanya idup itu full of cHoices.. kita hrs trs trs an bikin keputusan..

mo santai" di indO.. or go to sKUL in ameriCa.. to the simple one.. mo belajar marketing or lanjutin nulis Blog.. hehhee.. mo bOong or tell the truth..?

dilemma.

and i cHoose to study for my marketing exam tomOrrow.. and for that.. i end it here.. =)

"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing. The worst thing you can do is nothing." [Theodore Roosevelt]

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i’ve been having this thought going on my mind for so longg.. i just need perfect timing, right time, right moment, right night, right day, to translate it from "just a thOught" to words..

whaaa? wha is thaa? kekeke

that’s : hubby material. dot. periOd.

nahh cowo" y’all bettah read this carefully.. hehehe.

aiteee ladies.. now ish yOur turn.. what are the criterias for a man to be considered "a perfect husband material" ?

most of the ladies might say…

1. cinta Tuhan  2. baeeee  3. setia  4. cakepp  5. kaya  6. rajin  7. pinter  8. tinggi  9. ???  10. ???

question, "emang nya ada cowo yg sesempurna itu?"

the answer : "ada, one in a billion and unfortunately he’s usually uda taken"

yes, ngga saLah sama sekali if you girls put all of the criteriassss for the man of your life to be.. seriOusly, that’s really a must, you better have the basic principal, the standard of ur man.. 

but what you have to keep in mind is… "to keep it real"

i used to dream about getting DaO Ming sHi for my husBand..

or LeonardO DiCapriO – a young – handsOme talented cOoL man who’s nOminated for an Oscar, and he actually got one tho’.. and yesh, gissele bundchen aja jaToeh cintrOng sama dia.. =D

but you know, that teenager-dreams, the an unrealistiC, impossible dream will slowly disapear… and continue to where the age and maturity taKes you to the next step when "tires meet the rOad" or saatnya punya paCar, then you’ll be back to the real life..

so, if we have to forget about DaO ming Shi or LeOnardO DicapriO type.. cowO macem apa sih yg hrsnya dijadiin pacar?

nah.. this is what my mom said,

"jangan pacaran waktu remaja. enjoY ur "masa muda". u cant see the quality of guys waktu mrk remaja."

i dated a guy when i was 15, and baru sadar of what she said was bener banget.. yah pas uda college..

she said, "you’ll be surprise, ka.. cowo" yg waktu smp sma ganteng bangetttttt, keren abis, kamu suKa.. pas uda gede trs ktemu lagi turn out to be "ngga cakep lagi, ngga keren sama skali, rusak, madesu (masa depan suram hehehe), pokonya totally different sama dulu.."

and of cOurse, the nerdies waKtu smp sMa yg ngga dilirik sama sekali beruBah jadi.. "jadi orang, jadi ganteng, jadi keren, jadi success.." 

gurLs klo ngga percaya, prOve it on ur high skul reunioN yah ntar.. =)

tapi of cOurse not only orang" yg beruBah, we also have changed.. for me personally, the way i see and menilai one man aja uda berubah banyaK.. i used to get fascinated easily by cute guy waktu high skuL.. just by the cute face alone bisa biKin hati degdeg an bangett.. heuhehe..

gedean dikit.. i admired cowo yg tau "how to charmed a lady", the one who’s gentleman, and well mannered..

now, when im ready to have a seriOus relationship and step to the fact that the person whom i choOse "will spend the rest of his life with me, forever, and ngga bisa diganti" lagi.. jadi bikin myself, personally, jadi super ati" ..
for sure, it has changed my perpective jg waktu determine "what kind of man that i want tO spent the rest of my life with..?"

im sure everybody will have their own criterias, mine miGht be different with yours..

and aaah, im landing to these: (from the most important to the less)

mine are : the one who loves God very" much, who is spiritually mature, who is faithful, who loves me unconditionally, who is strong in characters, whom i can rely on (reliable), who will be a great husband and father, yg bisa bikin my self berasa tenang/peace/sejahtera/damai klo bareng dia, the one who’s smart, who is calm, cOol, and berkharisma..

and ajaiBnya.. yg laen2 (cakep,tinggi,well mannered,etC, yg keliatan dr luar) belom kesebut sama sekali when i get to the point "mau cari orang to accompany me for the rest of my life". Kayanya ada hal" yg jadinya jauh lebih penting drpd cuma sekedar "caKep" or "keren"… coS you dont wanna spend and dedicate ur life with someone who is keren trs ujung2nya cheat on you.

orang jawa bilang, "bibit bebet bobot (kt lingling)" hehhee..

i belieVe that "we have to see the inside potentiaL" sih rather than trusting what we see from the outside =), the inner, the inside, the brain, the heart!! and they wont fade by time.. ngga aKan jadi pudar sama waktu..

my friend said.. "i dont care of what the eyes is seeing coz im in love with the inner being"..

how about you?

(i keep my answer deep inside my heart) hehehe..

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….ah, liVing in states.. taOen 2006, 21st century, jaman gini….

what’s really cross your mind sih klo mikirin orang" jaman sekarang? idup di dunia super high-tecH, everything serBa instant, palagi in stateS.. kompOr listrik, washer n dryer, microwaVe, ampe mesin cuci piring.. haaah.. the technologies uda super canggih skr..

but guess what, since i worked as one of the student assistant di Computer Lab nya sKola.. i get a chance to assist the students with their computer prOblems, and i just knew that ternyata banyak loh orang yg ngga aware sama yg namanya "kemajuan tecHnology"… hehehe..   

when i first got this job, i was a little afraid.. "gimana yah klo ada yg nanya and i duNno how to sOlve it??" ..

and i asked my superVisor as many hard question as i can thought of.. and she was just said, "dont worry stef, you’ll handle it.."

and ternyata..

if you know what kind of question that i get on the comp lab, maybe you’ll be surprise..

today, there was a woman.. arOund 26 years old i guess.. raised up her hand and called me..

she asked, "im so sorry, im not familiar with this technology here.. do you know how to double space the paragraph?"

later today, another lady asked me..

"do you know how to attach a document to an email?"

"do you know how to set up/ download msn messenger?"

most surprising one,

"how do you send an email?"

i said.."have you created one??"
she said, "i think i dO, but i never use it before.."

naaahh?? well.. i mean klo tante" di indO sih di maklumin klo ngga tau cara nge send emaiL.. but ahh.. i never knew klo di states, umur 20-an dunno how to send email… hehehe..

tapi yah.. waktu pas nyetir pulang tadi.. sempet, i think abOut it again.. and jadi inget before i went to states, mY mom really afraid that i never really ke dapur and cOok before.. so, ceritanya dia mo ngajarin buat menumis and nge-cah.. hahaha..

and my mBa were there tOo.. (mBa damis (30) ,mBa rus (22), and ika (14)..

mBa damis : "sOk atuh ka, nyalain kompornya.."

me: cara nya gimana Mba??

mBa damis : "kaka ngga tau caranya??" (deep inhales)

me : (dengan polosnya) taKut api.. hehe

mba rus n ika : (cekakak cekikik)

me : (dalem ati) "uhhhhhh i look like a fOol, emang kenapa klo ngga bisa nyalain kompor??" #$%^&*()(*()*(&%#

mBa damis : "ia atuh soK.. puter gas nya.. trs teMbak apinya.."

me : (repeated what she said..) "puter gas nya…"    and then my left hand tried to nyalain api frOm the temBakan, and ngga nyala2… and when akhirnya nyala and deketin apinya ke kompor..

me : "aaaahhhhhhhhh Mbaaaaa.. koq guedeee bangettt apiiiii nyaa??? matiiiinnnnnn…"

mba rus : "kaka kelamaan nyalain apinya.. keburu keluar banyaK gas nya…"

[my mom came...]

mom : "kenapa rus?"

my mBas : "ini, kaka mau nyalain kompor.. belum bisa.. "

mom : "ka.. kamu mah.. bener2 deh mami mah.. masa anak segede gini ngga bisa nyalain kompor.. mana ada cowo yg mau.. si ika yg umur 14 aja bisa.."

me : "haaa maahh.. klo cetting saya bisa.. nyalain kompor mah bisa nyuruh mBa.. klo cetting mana mungkin nyuruh mBa" kekekekke..

mom : [speechless]

see? si ika yg umur 14 aja bisa.. i cOuldnt even dO it… malu"in huh?

or.. another stOry..

k joe: "dear.. aku laper.. kamu bisa masak apa?"

me : "mie instant… hehehe"

k joe: "hmm.. ya uda buatin aku yah.."

me : "okeeee"

——-20 mins after——-

me : "nih ko… dah jadi.. "

k joe : "coba mana.."

me : "enaK ngga?? keleMbekan yah?"

k joe : "ini pasti kamu masukin mie nya sBlom aernya mendidih.."

me : "hah?? kamu bisa analyze mie instant dr rasanya yah??"

k joe : "besOk aku bikinin kamu mie instant yah.. ntar coba kamu rasain"

me : "aaah.. kamu rese ah.. rasanya sama aja laah pasti.."

[after i tried his, it dOes taste different!!!] sebel ngga?? @#$%^&

and sKr, i can laughhhh at my self klo inget kjadian itu.. (kemajuan teman2.. skr i can cOok.. mami seneng, k joe seneng, im happy too!!)

sOo.. i can cOnclude that "yeah, we cant Blame it to the people sih.. sometimes kita bilang ngga bisa before we even try it.. so the pepatah yg bilang: bisa karna biasa is very2 true =)"

the woman yg minta diajarin email hari ini said, "wHoa.. it’s really not that hard!! tau begini gampang, dah dari dulu" deh gue me-ngimel ria.."

hehehhee..

[hope this is lighten your dei everyOne]

-altalavista-

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"jadi orang mah biasa biasa aja ka.. biar ngga pusing.. menurut mami yah.. cw tuh harus sederhana aja lahh.. ngga usa banyak macem2.."

believe it or nOt that’s what my mother used tO tell me day and night.. that i have to be an ordinary girl, more specific, to be like her, typical housewife - ngurusin suami.. pinter masak, pinter ngatur $$, pinter ngurusin anak, bisa ngejait, nyulam, motong rambut, make up, cekatan abis, seneng dirumah, rajin, cakep, wangi dan bersih selalu, rajin menicure pedicure, rajin nyalon, spa, nge gym, arisan, jemput anak (walopun ada sopir), belanja, keibuan, kalem abis, sopan banget, seneng ngedeKor rumah, suara nya tipis/cempreng, tempat curhat temen2nya, bisa ballrOom dance, les vOcal, ngga maCem2, and for sure bergantung sepenuhnya to my dad (a.k.a pOwerless)..

and guess what?? my dad love her to death, cinta matiii, and she definitely gets what my bOyfriend always says ("yg bener itu cinta anak manjain istri, bukan cinta istri manjain anak").. and yes, dad manjain dia abis"an.. (and love us)

nah, what abOut me?? i used to ngga setuju with my mom’s idea about the image of an ideal girl.. i think to be a girl that is mentioned by my mom is totally boring and ngga ada tantangan nya sama sekali!! with my outgOing character, ngga mungkin i can stay home lama2.. stefannie was equal to gaul and parties.. (+foto2) hehe.. trs sifat momie yg super cewe was just the opposite of my character.. hehe..

tapi itu dulu… =) i dUNnO what changed me.. but little bY little i started to agree with my mom.. and my transformation to be a real girl with a real kick begun with me joined Rudy HadisuwarNo’s hair cut and make up cOurse"!! haa.. i remember my mom was sooo semanget nganterin daftar ke itu tempat.. continue with dressed lebih feminine.. jd seneng put make up on.. belajar applying liquid eyeliner..haha.. beLi bLush on, lipstick, started to cOok and nyOba2 recipes.. jadi jarang pegi2.. seneng baca.. bersih2.. etc etC etC..

as a result,

shinta: "tepphh.. curly-in rambut gueee dOnkkk"

nana: "tephhh.. ajarin gua applying liquid eyeliner dOnkk"

veni: "hahhh tepphh.. loe bisa masak?? ngga salah denger???" (i cOok sop buntut-french style buat dia.. and guess what she said after she tried.. "hmm..kayanya gua ngga cOcok deh teph tinggal di peraNcis.. hehehe"       huahauhuaha.. and she said that in frOnt of my darLin.. ahahaha.. and of cOurse until nOw…. everytime i cOok, He will ngeledekin "diBikin ala perancis lagi masakannya?" eeerrrrghhhhh!!!! Veniiiiiiii….. o_O !!!! heuheuheue..

ling": "wahh teph kamarnya sapa yg dekOr??"

mom: "ka, gimana masakan nya? jadi? bisa dimaKan??" ahahahhaa.. so sadddd deh..

as i grOw up, i literally accept the valueS that were taught by mom to me, nevertheless… i alsO come up with my own principe that "idup cuma sekali, sO i will strive to reacH my dream and do my best to fulfill it"..

[dad me mom]

[i luV her very" much...]

and sO.. later in life, i might be a 100% hoUsewife samBil pursue my career as well.. Knowing that it’s hard, musti belajar nih dari sekarangg.. *errrrrrrghhh* (paniC paniC) hehehe..

aiteeee.. it’s late olredii..

[altalaVista]

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me, sHinta, and nia.. pulang dr fentOn, oaKland and trs di mobil kita ngoBrOl seru.. =)

the conversation started frOm ngomongin my bestfriend, lilly yg skr decided buat ngga maen sinetrOn lg di indO.. cOs she said that pergaulan di dunia ke – artisan serem abis.. and it continued to ngomongin soaL indOnesian artists yg uda lamaaa bangett kaga diOmongin.. and i just knew that my friend sHinta is sooo updated loh soal2 beginian.. esp. sOal si ini kawin sama si ini, and si itu cerai ama si itu.. kekeke..

shinta : tau kan tep klo skr adjie masaid jadian sama denada??

me : hahh.. masa??

shinta: ia.. skr denada kan jd cakep banget..

me: ya ampunn.. cpcpcp.. loe tau kan klo skr jihan fahira cerai sama primus?

shinta: loh bukannya jihan fahira jadian sama gunawan??

me: hahh.. uda lama jg ngga… gunawan kan uda sama paramitha trs uda cerai lagi.. trs skr uda sama…. hmm… lupa gue.. hahaha

shinta: duLu kan gunawan sama lulu tObing.. ia.. trs sapa tuh yg maen abad 21.. hmm.. vira yuniar.. ia.. vira kan sama teuku ryan.. uda ngelahirin lagi..

me: hahh??? masa sihhh? vira ama teuku ryan?? koq gua ngga tau?? hueheuheuhe.. trs itu kan.. ddnya atalarik.. hmm.. atilla.. bukannya uda cerai jg sama wulan guritno.

shinta: ia.. wulan guritno kan skr sama mOreno..

me: ia ia.. trs itu tuh jonathan frizzy..

shinta: sama masayu kan??
me: uda putus lagi.. skr dia uda sama.. hmm.. sapa yah.. lupa gua..

and the convesation went on and on and on…..

i just wonder why peOple these day itu nganggep marriage as something yg "NOT sO important"..

[gtg, sowwy for the unfinished bLog.. hehe]

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eh eh baca deh… =)

aq amat sangat TIDAK brmaksud mncemarkan
pribadi mbak,aq ktemu poto mbak dikomputer
warnet,aq kira poto itu ngak ada orangnya di FS
lebih2 temen2 mbak (aq lupa ID FS nya) maki2 aq
krena aq pakai poto mbak,stelah aq ditunjukan fs
mbak aq tambah mangkel karena habis dimaki2
oleh teman2 mbak itu,makanya malah aq save
semua poto mbak.Tanpa mengurangi rasa hormat
saya kepada mbak,karena aq telah mengakui ke
salahan saya kepada mbak,apalagi tutur kata
mbak juga sangat ramah ,edukatif,dan
berwibawa….membuat saya malah luluh tuk jujur
dan minta maaf tidak terhingga kepada mbak yg
mempunyai poto bersangkutan…..mengakui
kesalahan saya……
akan tetapi,mhn amat sangat saya menghapus
dulu semau poto mbak,bahkan ID saya akan saya
kosongkan seperti mulai awal,dan menganti ID
nama,poto dan semuanya menjadi bersih total
kembali…..takan tetapi segalanya kan
membutuhkan proses,terutama proses
waktu,untuk itu mhn berilah kembali saya waktu
untuk proses bertobat
kelak nanti mbak akan saya beri tahu identitas
saya sesungguhnya……makaciii

a lil story behind it itu begini.. ada orang that use my piCs on FS.. cape deh liat yg beginian.. so i just sent him a msG.. a short msG..ngga marah.. cuma a lil’ dissapointed of him..

tHen.. 2 days later i got this msG frOm him..

soo?? what dO you get frOm that msG??

this is what i got.. when somebody make a mistake.. and we apprOach that person in a wrOng way.. it will surely turn into a disaster.. he said that after he got messages yg maki2 dia.. dia malah maKin mangkel (i duNno what that’s mean.. hahuheuhe) but pasti artinya tambah marah.. hehe..

fOr sure, i’ve learnt something sih this cOuple of days.. and that’s : "learning to communicate in an apprOpriate way to others.." or "there are a lot of better way to tell others about what you feel".. =) and pleaseeeeeeee.. nO offense yah gals.. =) hehehehe..

but seriOusly deh.. many times when we have a proBlem and have arguments with people.. pertama" we will be mad aboUt the prOBlem, arguing abOut the prOblem.. trs the next thing we know, kita jadi marah because of the way they are arguing..

unknowingly, we begin hurting each other.. and we refuse to accept or understand the content of people’s point of view because the way we are being apprOach.. true????

It’s not what we say that hurts but how we say it…

[to be continue.. gtg]

[the next morning]

pas buka Blog lagi eh uda ada comment frOm my bessiew.. oh oh.. bener bangett deh na.. i just knew that this verse, "love thy enemies as thy love thyself"… is one of God’s hardest task to do..

see how Jesus uda berkorban for uS.. he dOes not have what we called "Self-Defense".. ngga pernah nyOlot.. very gentle.. and full of love.. and here we are.. disinggung dikit.. BT.. diteGor dikit.. BT.. our pride is just as high as the skY.

so now i can concLude that what’s right is to follow what Jesus teaches us… tarataratadaaa..

we have to learn to love people.. if they make mistakes.. for sure you have to tell them in a right way.. gentle, penuh hikmad, penuh kasih, ngga nyOlot, and no kata2 yg menusuk..please..

and in contrast, when somebody kasih nasihat… please turn off our eGo, learn to have a teachable heart.. and of cOurse.. highlight for the day: "nO self – defense" kekekeke… (maksudnya dengerin dulu, accept it..baru tell excuses.. hehehe)

-ya uda, segini dulu yah-

hopefuly after reading this.. we can reduce the number of evil in this world.. hehehe..

GodBlessY’all – altalavista

[tephs]

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